April 2 2008

Queen Rania A Vlogger

So Queen Rania of Jordan decided to become a Vlogger addressing the problem of stereotypes, in an attempt to reach out to the west and break down these stereotypes.

I believe it’s not unusual for the Queen to come up with such smart and creative initiatives of a huge impact. I personally think that stereotyping is one of the biggest problems and there’s no better way to solve the problem than getting the feedback directly from the ones who either create them or who fall for them. And technology never fails in such missions. It helps reach as much people as possible in a glimpse.

Now what I find interesting is that the replies to the video, are coming from people of different cultural, religious and educational backgrounds. So the opinions will vary and the interaction will hopefully be fruitful. What I find upsetting on the other hand is the fact that some of the replies are being offensive, attacking the idea and urging the Queen to address Jordanians rather than the west! to the ones who think this way I say: you seem to have no idea about the activities of the Queen and have no clue about what she’s already accomplished and what she’s still doing in this regard. And addressing the west is, in my humble opinion,  courageous, smart and promising. Civilization works inside out, it’s never a one-way thing. It’s never enough to address problems within a country, since the ones coming from outside do affect it and its people as well.

Another annoying thing I’ve noticed in the replies submitted, is that many of the repliers are trying to steer the whole debate towards Islam and the fact that it doesn’t respect or welcome an opinion that contradicts its teachings, leaving no room for debate; which is so untrue, and there’s a difference between a free debate that respects all opinions as long as they are within the circle of respect and understanding, and an offensive debate that has no goal but to attack and show disrespect and intolerance towards the debaters. Islam always encourages debates as long as they aim at understanding, respecting and tolerating each other.

I just wish that the video will open the door for a positive interaction. No matter how much one talks, if the other person is not willing to listen, there will be no point of arguing in the first place. Therefore I really hope that only interested individuals who are willing to argue politely and who are willing to give a chance to be replied to and discussed with, will participate in the debate. If you’re just looking for trouble and fights, please save the Queen your cyber violence.

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February 1 2008

Nostalgia

So it’s been snowing in many Middle Eastern countries in the past couple of weeks. God I miss snow! It’s been around 5 years since I last saw snow in real life.
Snow actually triggers some of the sweetest memories for me. It reminds me of moments so dear to my heart that sometimes I could relive these moments just by watching snow on TV, in movies or even in photographs.

It’s no secret that snowing is rare in our part of the world, and therefore, when it snows, everything seems to be magically paused! It’s like someone stopped time and allowed nothing to move… nothing but the beautiful white soft snow falling from up above.

I remember in Amman, every time it used to snow there were certain things which people would do in a certain order. First people would gather at the windows or glass doors of their homes and offices shouting and smiling like they’re watching an alien pass by. Parents would get their kids and hold their babies up high, open the windows slightly and make them touch snow, and then kids would start nagging to go play outside (although there’s no snow on the ground yet). Then people start calling each other, as if it’s an occasion and people need to greet each other or something. And in no time, as soon as snow starts forming thin layers on the streets, those at work would start preparing their stuff to leave to their homes before they get stuck in the middle of nowhere; and those at home would go out buy whatever they can get their hands on… just like they would if there was a possible war coming! Everything from matches, to food, water, gas, kerosene… etc. (Nas’ post perfectly explains what I’m trying to say here).
After that, people seem to have a sudden interest in radio and TV, and while most of the family would be listening to radio or watching TV, there has to be someone in the kitchen (mostly moms) cooking something, or preparing something hot to warm up the rest of the members, while kids are still nagging to go out.

Snow starts piling up, streets are beautifully dressed in white, that’s when some “adventurous” guys decide to show off their snow-driving-skills. Parents start swearing at the parents of those guys, who are putting their selves and others in danger. Kids nag even more to go out to play. The adventurous guys return home, some with a bunch of strangers pushing their cars, some alone without their cars, and very few return with a smiley face and shiny teeth (that look yellow compared to the white snow) proudly parking their 4×4 ( which will be getting its share of snowball-hitting very soon). Kids are not just nagging, they’re crying now.
The parents are done with the nagging, you suddenly find groups of people walking in a penguin-like manner, hidden under the MANY layers of clothing, some just staring at the sky smiling at the falling snow (those look stupid most of the time), some TRYING to bend to grab some snow, while others have managed to form snowballs and are already throwing them on someone else, some making a snowman, others destroying it, some trying to clear the house/building entrance for people to be able to walk easily, and many, yes, many would be just running idiotically down the street while screaming and trying to wipe off the mucus running down their noses (kids seem to find licking the best solution for this specific problem). Some “creative” ones would just grab a really huge tray, flip it over sit on it and try so hardly to slide down the hill, they don’t give up, they call for backup, and in the end they mostly end up under the tray cursing, while the “backup” people are either laughing madly at them or burying them in snow!

We shouldn’t forget some of the teenagers who keep trying to get rid of the snow falling on their hair, and who keep wiping off some car windows to check out their looks, and who are embarrassed to run, play or do anything but stand there trying to be cool. Ah, they’re so cute!Some guys would actually find it the perfect timing to hook up with the girl next door… just throw a snowball “by mistake” go apologize, smile, start a chat -that will most probably end up before it even starts- by the girl’s bro or dad ;)
Oh and of course the many excited people who look for the weirdest  spots to take pictures. Places like on the top of a car, or up a broken tree!
I personally miss snow, yes I do, I usually turn into a couch potato every time it snows, that’s after I’m done playing of course. I particularly miss my family and the tea we used to make out of pure, untouched snow we had gathered from the trees, it’s so yummy!
Ah, the good old days.  I love the fact that snowing in our countries is considered a big historical event. I love the fact that every time it snows heavily (especially the very first time of each year), people have the same exact reaction. I miss that. I miss how everything’s put on hold till further notice. I miss how students who aren’t in the mood to go to school would pray to God it would snow; how employees who are in need of a break would wish for it to snow. I miss how family members are forced to stay all in the same place, how neighbors bond, and how people tend to offer help to other people they know, or even those they don’t. I miss waking up at dawn to see nothing but white and some redness in the skies…in short, i miss snow and the warmth it brings!

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November 9 2007

Jordan Remembers…

[picture edited by Odai Nemri]

2 years since the horrible terrorist attacks on Amman, Jordan. Today is one of those days in which you find yourself speechless. Being away, remembering all those we watched get awfully killed from a distance, I can’t even imagine how others, who are in Amman, and even worse, those, who lost loved ones, are feeling right this moment!

One cant but pray and hope God will give them all the strength to go on, and that God will protect Jordan and its people from such evil souls…

[Jordanians march in the aftermath of the 9/11/2005 attacks; source: The Jordan Times]
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July 27 2007

Resentment VS. Coexistence

Ah, I’m just hating it!
Hating this whole “you hate me, I hate you, they hate us, we hate them” crap!
Seriously! I mean, turn on TV, surf the net, read newspapers, anything, and you’ll be faced with countless entries and articles and documentaries about hatred and resentment among us.
Everyone defending their own stand, and everyone attacking and blaming the other.
Iraqis suffering from Jordanians, Lebanese hating Syrians, Palestinians and Jordanians pointing fingers at each other… and the list goes on.
Who’s right? All are. Of course there are Jordanians who give Iraqis a hard time, just like there are Iraqis who are enjoying the privileges of natives but are still attacking Jordanians for the heck of it. Of course there are Lebanese who can’t stand Syrians, and Syrians who hate Lebanese. Of course there are Jordanians who are irritated by Palestinians, and Palestinians who can’t tolerate Jordanians. We even have Palestinians fighting each other and Iraqis killing each others!!!

Nobody’s perfect. We’re all part of communities that include victims and criminals. We all have those who love and those who hate, those who make life easier for others, and those who enjoy making others’ lives a living hell!
Till when are we going to keep on pointing fingers and looking for ways to turn the world against each other?!
When are we going to simply see the picture clearly, maintain our objectivity, and try to fix problems and heal the wounds instead of taking every single damn thing personally and getting outrageous!

Whether we like it or not, people are suffering and change needs to happen. If Iraqis share their suffering at borders, we should fix the damn problem, not get furious and start digging in history files just to put our hands on some of their mistakes against us!
This is ridiculous, pathetic and shameful!

To me, for all I know, I’m Arab, I’m letting no religion, no origin, no passport and no dialect get in the way of me helping my fellow Arabs.
Refugees are not beggars, they’re good people who had homes and lands and careers of their own but time and human cruelty forced them out of their countries into ours, we should respect them and care for them and offer them help until they recover. Because if we were in their shoes that’s how we’d love to be treated.
And just like Refugees should be respected, they should also know their limits, show respect and appreciation to any country that opens its door to them. They should also know that their presence caused serious problems for the natives whether they like it or not, and therefore dislike and complications are to be expected, especially from the poorer members of society.
So if some members of that country mistreated Refugees or harassed them, then sharing the problem publicly doesn’t mean waging war by any side on either side, it means a call for help.
With some understanding, objectivity and tolerance from both sides, I’m sure we’ll successfully coexist and problems will be solved or at least maintained instead of having them transform into provoking agents of hatred and resentment.

We’re all Arab for God’s sake!

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July 16 2007

My Visit To Amman

So I went to Amman in April, I was looking forward to it, specially that it’s been 2 years since I last visited it.
I had so many plans, I wanted to meet many friends and bloggers, and things went greatly for the first week or so. Afterwards unpleasant surprises came up and for personal reasons, our plans didn’t go on as we wished.
I managed to meet only few friends in the 1st week, so here I am apologizing for not being able to make it and meet up with other friends and bloggers I truly wished I could meet.

Being away for 2 years, my last visit seemed as if it was the first ever to Jordan. I was missing it and missing my family so much, and with a new member in the family (my son Adam) exploring Amman has never been greater. It was like seeing it with a new pair of eyes… like falling in love with it all over again :)

Again, Amman is blooming, with more and more buildings and investment sights; more cars (somehow less than 2 years earlier but the city is still crazily crowded); more yummy places to eat (explains the noticeable weight problem among the population, not that I’m against fat people, in fact I believe looks and weight have nothing to do with the quality of the person); remarkable decrease in Iraqis and Egyptians (more Asians and Indians on the other hand); less green all over the capital, and finally, unfortunately the level of cleanliness has dropped drastically (maybe because Amman is really crowded now, don’t know!).
It has to be said that Amman has become insanely expensive, and almost all people I met and heard of, regardless of their positions in society, were all complaining about the financial situation in the country. Not to mention many of my bright friends, who are suffering from unemployment for a long time.

On a brighter note, weather was perfect, we bought loads of books, and well, I ate like crazy. Really, I didn’t have the courage to weigh myself in Amman, and I was expecting a disaster on the scale when I came to Tunis, but it turned out I only put on a couple of kilos! Phew! I’m positive that without all the running after Adam and taking care of him I’d be looking like a whale… yeah, it was that bad, I ate like a pig!
But thanks to Adam, who needs feeding, bathing, changing, calming, entertaining, putting to sleep, and who also decided to get sick, and wanted to have his first tooth in the midst of my visit, the crazy eating wasn’t lethal after all!
Even Adam’s appetite was great, he ate a lot better than ever, I guess even babies have vacation moods!

This last visit would’ve been a perfect one, if we were spared the unpleasant surprises, and if I got to meet my other sis and my 2 brothers who were in Canada and couldn’t make it! I miss them sooooooooooo much!

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March 8 2007

Visa Regulations In The Arab World

I’ve always believed that it’s such a shame for Arab countries to request visas from each other. I mean, we call for an Arab union, we dream of an Arab unity on all levels of life, but while dreaming and calling, we still stick to every single separation factor that helps only spread more division among us.

One of the most effective forms of separation is the request for a VISA; since it highlights borders and empowers the barriers that were created by imperialism. Yet for some reason, Arabs insist on holding to the annoying demands of visas, making them a must to legally seek permission for entering another Arab country. And by that, Arab countries –with the exception of really FEW countries- are treating each other as foreigners not as countries of brotherhood “dying” for unity.

Today I came across some news about Visa regulations in Jordan. Apparently, an Interior Ministry regulation requiring nationals from several East European and Mediterranean countries to obtain a visa before entering the Kingdom was rescinded. [Source:The Jordan Times].

Now my main concern revolves around the part regarding the “Mediterranean” countries, Tunisia being one of them.
Jordan requires no visas from Tunisians BEFORE entering the Kingdom. Tunisian nationals are issued visas upon arrival (i.e. at the airport of Jordan). Which I consider an extremely friendly gesture. I mean if visas have to be requested, they might as well be –relatively- easily given if we really want to show our tendency towards unity.
And therefore I’m relieved that
Jordan will stick to its policy in this regard.

Anyway, to make sure to stick on the safe side, my husband always requests a visa before flying to Jordan. He submits his demand, and he gets his visa by noon of the same day with no complications whatsoever.
While I, on the other hand, even though I’m married to a Tunisian, and even though I have my residency papers all legally and officially defined, would go through an amazing deal of trouble just to get my own parents a visa to visit me for a short while… if they were finally given the visa that is!
I don’t claim it’s unjustifiable or wrong, because I know the horrible time we’re living and the security measurements each country has to take to protect itself and its civilians from any form of threat or danger. I’m just wishing, if we still insist on this whole visa thing, that when a person has provided all requested official paper work and it turned out to be all legally approved and correct, that this person will get the same treatment his/her country provides for the nationals of the country (s)he resides in…

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June 3 2006

خارج الجسد’: ولادة الحياة برغم كل شيء’

خارج الجسد
أوّل ما شدّني لهذه الرواية كان اسم الكاتبة: عفاف البطاينة. لم أكن قد سمعت باسم هذه الكاتبة الأردنية سابقا. قرأت خلاصة القصة على الغلاف وقرّرت شراءها. لفت انتباهي أنّ الرواية غير متوفّرة في أي ركن أردني مشارك في معرض الكتاب وأنّها لاتباع إلاّ في هذا الركن اللبناني، وعندما دقّقت النظر لاحظت أنّ دارالنشر التي تولّت طبعها Ùˆ توزيعها هي أيضا لبنانية Ùˆ ليست أردنية. ولكن بعد لحظات جاءني البائع وأوضح لي أنّ هذه الرواية منع نشرها في الأردن…بعد قراءتي للرواية فهمت ما قد يكون تسبب في منعها. فالكاتبة ناقشت أكثر المواضيع حساسية بالنسبة للعرب بشكل عام في قصة أبطالها من المجتمع الأردني، ممّا قد اعتبر على الأرجح فضحا لهدا المجتمع.
فقد انتقدت البطاينة المجتمع الذكوري الذي لا يرحم المرأة، وكتبت عن جرائم الشرف، وحقوق الإنسان و المرأة، والفهم الخاطيء للدّين، والفقر، والجهل، اليأس والأمل، الزواج، العنف، الظلم، التفكك الأسري،، الخيانة والغدر، الهجرة واختلاف الحضارات؛ حتّى الشعوذة والخزعبلات تطرّقت إليها.
وأخيرا وليس آخرا: الحرية وحقّ الاختيار. هذا عدا عن اللغة الجريئة في الحوار وسرد التفاصيل فيما يخص العلاقات الزوجية والحميمة.
ليس من المعروف إن كانت هذه الرواية تجسيدا لسيرة الكاتبة الذاتية أو أنها مستوحاة من واقع المجتمع الذي عاشت فيه، ولكن بغض النظر عن مصدر هذه القصة، فهي بحق تعبر عن أغلب المجتمعات العربية. فللأسف الشديد تعتبر مجتمعاتنا مريضة حتى الآن من ناحية فهمها للدين و تعريفها للشرف و اعترافها بالخطأ.أسلوب الكاتبة متمكن،اللغة قوية مؤثرة، الجرأة واضحة، المفردات منتقاة، وأسلوب السرد، وإن كان قد أربكني قليلا في البداية ، إلاّ أنّه شيق ومثير.
انتهيت من قراءة الرواية قبل حوالي الأسبوعين، ومنذ ذلك الحين وأنا أفكر في هذه الدنيا التي تقدم الكثير لبعضنا عل طبق من فضة و تفرش لهم الطريق بالورود، و التي في الوقت ذاته تحرم الكثيرين من أبسط الحقوق.
فكرت كثيرا في هؤلاء المحرومين الذين يلتقون المحظوظين كل يوم في المدارس Ùˆ الجامعات والوظائف والمحلات، Ùˆ حاولت الدخول إلى عقولهم والتكهن بما يمكن أن يكونوا يفكرون: الحسد، الحقد، الغيرة، الخوف، الطمأنينة، الإصرار، الإعجاب…لم أستطع الإجابة ولكن شيء واحد تأكدت منه، وهو أن الدنيا مليئة بالمشاكل، مرّها أقوى من حلوها للكثيرين، وعلينا تقدير أبسط الأشياء التي منّ بها اللّه علينا، لأنّ غيرنا محروم حتى من أبسط الأشياء…
January 25 2006

The Death Of Victoria Omeish

Victoria Omeish, a name that may ring no bell to so many, but to me this name is strongly attached to a lovely period of my life in Amman.

Omeish was a very active and inspiring figure in her career with Jordan Radio and Television Corporation (JRTVC).
Ever since I came to Jordan by the age of 13, I’ve been meeting her when my school shot a song, or a musical performance or similar activities.
Back then, she used to scare me, she was so strict, and very serious in her work. But when I met her later in university, then during my career life, I realized that what used to scare me, is what I should admire her for. She amazingly worked everything out, keeping everyone and everything under control.
Her job wasn’t easy, and she was always good at what she did.

It’s true I didn’t know her closely, and met her only few times in my life, but I have to admit that when I read the news of her death, I felt depressed. And what saddened me was the fact that she was found by her family members already dead in her apartment yesterday… a very sad way for such a successful and bright woman to end up!

May her soul rest in peace…

December 27 2005

Jordanian Products In Harrods

“A recent display of Jordan River Foundation (JRF) products at a London landmark is one example of how the organisation, which turned 10 this year, is going global.

A 50 sq.m. section of Harrods department store’s floor space was lent to JRF from November through January to market the foundation’s home accessories, which are made by rural community groups in the Kingdom.

“It’s not just the work we are proud of. We are proud of the actual impact that these women will be gaining by having their products sold on an international level. They will have exposure, new marketing channels. It will create more job opportunities,” she added.

The global market, JRF hopes, will also increase the women’s skills and expertise to provide quality products for department stores and boutiques.
JRF hopes to start a broader international marketing campaign in 2006, primarily in the UK, France and US”.

Source: The Jordan Times

Now this is what I call a great step forward 🙂

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November 21 2005

Art VS Terrorism: “Erasing The Black Day”

More than 15 Jordanian artists will join forces on Nov. 23 in a memorial exhibition entitled “Erasing the Black Day,” to showcase their rejection and condemnation of the recent terrorist attacks in the Kingdom.

“Erasing the Black Day is a gesture for our beloved country and shows the clear solidarity of Jordanian artists against terrorist attacks, which in return reflects the rejection and condemnation of all Jordanians for such attacks…We call on all citizens to join us at this national exhibition to further prove that we are united” said Lama Hourani, of Foresight Art Centre, which organised the exhibition in collaboration with the artists and supporting organisations.

Artists will paint on black fabric with white paint, and black lights in the gallery will make the drawings glow in the dark. Visitors are asked to wear dark clothes because of the lighting.

The artists participating in the exhibition are Ali Maher, Dodi Tabbaa, Emad Hajjaj, Farouq Lambaz, Ghada Dahdaleh, Hazem Zu’bi, Hilda Hiyari, Jihad Al Ameri, Khalid Khreis, Maha Qawar, Mohammad Al Ameri, Rafiq Lahham, Rajwa Ali, Samah Hijjawi, Samer Tabbaa, Suhad Khatib and Shireen Odeh.
The exhibition will run until Dec. 8.
Source: Jordan Times

So to everyone in Jordan: put on something dark and go join them!