December 11 2008

“Once Upon A Time” Might Come Back

This morning I woke up at the same usual time, drank the same coffee, did some of my translation work, just like every other day. My day was a very ordinary one, doing the same things, at the same time, in the same place. That was until I checked my email and noticed that among the many emails in my inbox there was this Facebook message, notifying me that I was tagged in a note by my younger sister.

Her note: “Once upon a time… never comes back”

“- Going back, twenty years ago, it was a blessed Ramadan evening, I was lying on his lap, he was running his fingers through my hair, and reciting verses of the holy Quran; I recall nothing after that… I fell into a deep sleep. He’s been there… he’s my lovely dad…
– It was my very first day, she combed my hair and dressed me up, I grabbed my lunch box and I’m off to preschool, it was the beginning of my new big world, I tried to hold my tears back, but… couldn’t help it, I let go. She wiped my tears away, threw that warm kiss on my cheek and pushed me forth. She’s been there… she’s my unique mom…
– Holding her books, memorizing the words, wearing that red girly ribbon over her wavy hair… that’s how she looked, “Can I have my milk?” …her smile replied, “Can I get my ice-cream?”… her green shiny eyes responded… she’s been there… she’s my eldest sis…
– It’s London, rain drops were knocking the top of our heads… “It’s too cold”… “it’s Okay, just walk beside me and give me your hand” … my little fingers were hiding safely inside his big warm palm… he’s been there… he’s my eldest brother…
– I woke up, opened my eyes wishing if she’s still around… but… “it was her wedding yesterday”, I can no more wake her up and bother her small ears with noisy sounds… heart to heart, that’s how we communicate,  she’s been there, she’s my other sis…
– My twin, babies we were… and together we grew up… too many things to recall and little to forget… fighting…playing…screaming… dreaming… dancing… me and him, he’s sitting in that spot, a special corner in my heart… he’s been there, he’s my little brother…That’s my family. Bless you…”

The minute I finished reading her note, I felt like time stood still; it was no longer today, it was years back, I no longer was in my home in Tunis, I was back in Kuwait, London, Amman and many other places we used to be when we were all together. I felt this overwhelming joy to relive these so old moments, but couldn’t fight the tears that found their way so easily out of my burning eyes… for I was the “other sis” who left immediately after her wedding, just like that. I felt so brokenhearted, just like I must have broken all their hearts years back.

But as I taste this bitterness , I sense sweetness of the old days taking over my aching heart, reviving one single dream, a hope, that the “once upona time” will come back, and that one day we’d all be in the same place and bring to life those sweet memories that seem so far away.

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December 6 2008

Gift Ideas For Eid Al- Adha

So, Eid Al- Adha is in a couple of days, Eid Mubarak to you all.

Actually, every time an Islamic occasion approaches, and no matter in which part of the world I really am, I hear the same whining and complaining from Muslims about how dull, lame, and boring our occasions are… and of course I need not mention the really negative comments comparing the Muslim celebrating techniques to those of people of other faiths and religions.

Now I do agree that the holiday season in most non-Muslim countries are simply beautiful, and I frankly like the decorations of streets, stores, malls and homes during Christmas for example, and I enjoy the whole spirit of Christmas, why not, there’s nothing wrong with that. What I’m honestly sick and tired of though is the spirit of many Muslims during their religious occasions.

I never thought that Muslim occasions were dull, and I never found any technique of celebrating any of these occasions boring; I never thought of any decorating style as ugly or vulgar! Instead I thought that as long as the person is reflecting a pure sense of joy and sharing, then I believe that the gesture of showing off their own taste of decorating -no matter how good or bad others think it was-  deserves our appreciation at least, if we could not express our admiration.

If you think Muslim celebrations are boring and their decorating styles are outdated or vulgar or whatever, then why don’t you DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT! Instead of exposing the bad tastes of people, why don’t you share some better ideas and give them nice tips they can use? why don’t you teach people you know how to be better decorators, or advise people who are responsible for decorating malls how to do it the right way! If you’re a blogger, post lists of do’s and dont’s, share pics of good decoration examples, expose the good side for people to follow, the negative approach only helps people give up the whole thing.

I’ve posted a few things my family does to decorate sweet trays in Eid Al-Adha, this year I decided to share you some really nice and cute gift ideas relating to this occasion.

My picks for:

  • Jewellery lovers

  • Travellers (e.g. Hajj & Omra)

  • Art lovers

  • Gadget lovers

  • Children

Check this out, and this as well, all are really amazing, couldn’t choose my favorite, but I find these extremely cute:    (Desi Dolls)

  • The romantic ones of you:

Nothing says it better than flowers!


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November 27 2008

The Charter For Compassion

While the religions and faiths of mankind are different in so many ways, they all share the core principle of compassion, and they all agree to “The Golden Rule“: Do not do to others what you would not have done to you.

And from this belief came the idea of forming The Charter For Compassion, a collaborative project by people from all around the world, in an attempt to inspire the world to think differently about religion, recognize each other’s humanity, and to help build a peaceful and harmonious global community based on tolerance.

This project, was actually a wish made by Karen Armstrong when she won the TED Prize, a prize designed to leverage the TED Community’s exceptional array of talent and resources. It is awarded annually to three exceptional individuals who each receive $100,000 and the granting of “One Wish to Change the World.” And Karen’s wish was creating this Charter For Compassion.

The charter will be completed in 2009. The project’s site is open for people from all nations, all religions, all faiths, all backgrounds, to tell their own stories and share their own experiences of compassion. These contributions will then be reviewed by a Council of Sages, made up of religious thinkers and leaders, who will use them to create the final version of the Charter. The document will not only speak to the core ideas of compassion but will also address the actions all segments of society can take to bring these ideas into the world more fully. The Charter will then be signed by religious leaders of all faiths at a large launch event, followed by a series of other events to publicize and promote the Charter around the world.

The contributions are rather impressive and the stories are really touching. Visit the site to learn more about the charter and to take a look at the contributions, rate them, and even share your opinion, stories and comments with others on the site.

P.s. Thanks to my friend Mary for the tip.

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November 13 2008

Queen Rania To Receive the 1st YouTube Visionary Award

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“(Office of Her Majesty, Press Department – Amman) YouTube™, the leading online video community for people to discover, watch, and share originally created videos, today announced that Her Majesty Queen Rania Al Abdullah of Jordan will be the premier recipient of the YouTube Visionary Award. Her Majesty will accept this honor in recognition of her efforts – via online video – to rid the world of the stereotypes and misconceptions associated with Arab and Muslim communities”. [The Queen’s Official Website]

[Image  Source: CNN]

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November 13 2008

USA History

In black and white…
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[Via: EnlargeYourPen, Source: Patrick Moberg]

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October 15 2008

Blog Action Day 2008: POVERTY; Our Great Sin

Whether caused by destiny, a natural catastrophe, or mankind, poverty was and will always be the one nightmare haunting human beings. Those who are already poor spend their lives struggling to get rid of poverty; and those who aren’t, spend their lives fighting to avoid it…

Regardless of the form, in which poverty comes, the result is always the same: pain, embarrassment, suffering, and this intolerable feeling of inequality, difference, and injustice. But it has to be said that man-made poverty remains the most difficult form of poverty to be endured by the less-fortunate among us. And when it’s man-made, poverty is indeed “the worst form of violence” as Mahatma Gandhi stated many years ago.

We humans are capable of making individuals as well as entire nations poor so easily just by turning our evil dark side to the active-mode. Our ignorance and greed, both stemming from our disgusting selfishness, are the reason we steal the savings of a retired old man; the reason we kill the only member of a family that can actually earn money; the reason we wage wars destroying the economies and generations of countries; the reason we turn a blind eye to those who are in need, even if they were so close; and the reason we humiliate those who are poor and deprive them of their basic right of survival, equal treatment and security.

And as Charles Darwin stated:“If the misery of the poor be caused not by the laws of nature, but by our institutions, great is our sin”. Looking at the world today, it’s easy to see that we’ve sinned, big time, and for such a sin we shall pay, in fact, we’re already paying. Aristotle once said:“poverty is the parent of revolution and crime”, we caused a lot of poverty around us, and now we have to deal with the aftermath. We need to wake up and do something if we really wanted to overcome poverty and makeup for the mess we’ve created in our societies. But what many people don’t realize is that it’s our duty and our responsibility to end poverty, it’s not something nice you do if you feel like it; just as Nelson Mandela puts it: Overcoming poverty is not a gesture of charity. It is an act of justice. It is the protection of a fundamental human right, the right to dignity and a decent life”; and Muhammad Yunus also agrees: This is not charity. This is business: business with a social objective, which is to help people get out of poverty”.

Poverty knows no mercy. It attacks any one of any age, any gender, any religion, any position… Don’t think that things remain the way they are forever, everything changes, everything comes to an end,. And just like the poor can become rich, the rich may also become poor. That’s why you need to think of others and know that one day you might be in their shoes, even if you did all you could to avoid such a tragedy… life is full of surprises.

Start now by learning and teaching others to share, give away and help. You can also teach someone a profession, help educate someone, help someone find a job … or the least you could do is “remember the poor, it costs nothing” -Mark Twain.

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October 10 2008

Starbucks Outrages Environmentalists

Although known for its care for the environment and its work to help protect it, environmental experts accused the giant coffee chain Starbucks of pouring millions of litres of precious water down the drain at its coffee shops, or to be more precise, 23.4 million litres of clean water a day, which would provide enough daily water for the entire two million-strong population of drought-hit Namibia in Africa, or fill an Olympic-sized pool every 83 minutes.

Apparently  the chain has a policy of keeping a tap running non-stop at all its 10,000 outlets worldwide, for “hygiene reasons”, a claim that was later dismissed by experts as “nonsense”.

I personally think there is no excuse whatsoever to waste any amount of water, let alone millions of litres per day. There are always environmental-friendly alternatives available to guarantee a healthy clean environment at any coffee shop or restaurant. If the supervisors of this chain , or any other chain for that matter, are clueless on how to keep a balance between protecting the health of their customers and protecting the environment, then I believe they should seek professional help from an environmental expert. In fact, I actually believe that there should be environmental advisors/consultants available for this specific task, as part of any work team of any chain of any kind. 

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October 7 2008

Getting Creative

Don’t you just love good creative advertising?

I came across “10 Creative Advertising Ideas from Students” via EnlargeYourPen, and will share my favorite 3 with you.

Help plant more. greenpeace.com, Sungkwon Ha

Andrew Seagrave

Jeseok Yi

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September 8 2008

To Amman & Back

I got back to Tunis around a week ago. I’ve been in a decluttering mode ever since, and I guess I’d be stuck in this mode for a little while.

My visit to Amman was great, except for the fact that I was able to meet only two of my family members, I really miss the rest of my family… and well, there was this stupid unexpected incident that managed to annoy the hell out of me and had such an irritating impact on my whole visit, but will come to this later in other posts.

As usual, time flew by so quickly, faster than ever actually, it’s like my whole stay lasted a couple of days rather than a few weeks. I got to meet NO FRIENDS at all, but I got to discover the new sites of the city and had the chance to eat as many middle-eastern and fast food dishes as I wished. Not to mention watching movies in great cinemas and going through brand new books in some really lovely bookshops!

Once again, it has to be said that Amman is an ever blooming city, no doubt about that. Every year I see more and more investment projects, new companies, new shopping malls, new restaurants, diverse networking events…etc. That of course means more crowded places, more traffic, less parking spaces and the fact that it will take you a “while” to reach your destination. But still, it’s all worth it in the lovely Amman.

The only two things -besides the traffic that is- that I really wish would be reconsidered are: life expenses and green spaces. Amman is becoming really expensive. The cost of everything is on the rise, taxes are unbelievable and there’s a clear gap between the citizens’ earnings and their expenses. As for the green spaces, and despite the obvious efforts to turn the city into an environment-friendly place, trees and green spaces seem to be always decreasing, and I doubt that they’re an important part of any plan for a new mall, residence or whatever. Which is such a shame, with a bit more green, Amman will look really great and will be a healthier place to live.

Although I stayed for a relatively long time in Amman, I still miss it… guess I can never get enough of it! And right this moment, I happen to miss its slightly cool summer breeze; the weather in Tunis is getting hotter and hotter that I feel I’m literally melting!

Now let me get back to cleaning up and throwing away whatever we don’t need!

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July 27 2008

Death Of Yousef Shaheen!

The Arabic movie industry lost one of its most talented, most creative, and most daring directors today. Yes, Yousef Shaheen -or Youssef Chahine as many also spell it-, the famous Egyptian film maker passed away just today, in Cairo, at the age of 82.

May his soul rest in peace!

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